A question for a Catholic?

As a former Catholic, I first will say I FULLY understand Catholism so no Catholic needs to say "well you don't know". Anyway the religiousity around Mary is my question. If you feel the Holy Bible is God's word and at the end Revelation it gives a stern warning about adding or changing anything in this book, why do you then follow the Catechism? Read the 4 Gospels again from start to finish, every word. I do not see ONE command from Jesus saying we are to pray to Mary, however He says to worship the Lord your Father with all your heart, mind, and soul. I do not see Jesus setting up Mary as the queen of Heaven either as your intercessor. So ask yourself who did this? God or man? The Catholic same response on here is "well we pray to Mary because we are asking her to pray for us" "we do not worship her", etc. Yet, Catholics will go to church this weekend at some of your churches, kneel at her statue, light a candle, etc. Worship or not? Hmmm. They will then say the "rosary", where they plead with Mary to hear their prayers. Praying to her as she is a God or not? Where is Jesus in the Catholic church? Is He just a son of Mary to you or to God?